The Marriage Code

Why is it so hard for married couples to get in sync with each other? How is it that one's mate can be a source of joy and of frustration all on the same day?

Marriages operate by a code, a collection of key words, actions, insights, and attitudes that determine how a couple's relationship works. When that code is uncovered, love grows and flourishes. If that code remains a mystery, love gets buried behind misunderstandings and irritations. Laced with the Farrels- trademark humor, The Marriage Code is packed with ideas for creative code-breaking so couples can connect at a richer, deeper level, enabling them to discover:

  • the real enemy of love
  • the pace that will energize their relationship
  • the plan that will get their lives in sync
  • the keys to creating great interactions
  • the clues for discovering a satisfying sex life

The Marriage Code is for every couple who wants to know just how good their relationship can be. As both partners grow in relationship with God and rely on the Spirit for insights into the heart of their mate, they can replace their old, selfish codes with a new one that leads to greater intimacy in every area of life.

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What people say about "The Marriage Code"


This book lived up to my expectations and more. As usual, Bill and Pam seem to know exactly what is going on in my head and in my marriage. This book was really good to read when I couldn't quite figure out what the problem was and where we were going wrong. After reading it, I now know things that I can do to make our marriage even better! It was such a good book and so easy to read that I had a hard time putting it down, and as a result, had read it in just a few days. I highly recommend this book!
— Amazon Reader Debbie

"This book is great for anyone wanting to work on their marriage or other relationship and improve communication. It teaches how to communicate with each other and how to break through all the barriers to reach a deeper understanding of what drives the other person and how to touch his/her heart. I was deeply moved by this book and would recommend it highly to anyone frustrated in their current situation or just not feeling heard or not feeling like you are part of your partners life anymore! Book really makes you stop and think."
—Denise Moran