New Year's - 2018 Ezine  

Happy New Year from Our Family to Yours

Bill and Pam Farrel, Christmas 2017We pray your holiday season was filled with memory-making activities, meaningful relationship connections and blessed times worshipping our Savior.

The theme of our ministry, Love-Wise, is to connect God's Love and God's Wisdom to you, your life and the relationships you value.


Look Back

The New Year is a good time for reflection and planning. At our home, New Year's Day brings a little football (we did raise 3 athlete sons!) but more importantly, New Year’s Day for us is also a time to cozy up and share some heart to heart conversation. We listen to each other as we share personal highlights, struggles, blessings and breakthroughs. We dream together of what we hope the new year might bring. We spend some time praying for each other, inviting God to lead us, guide us, strengthen and yes, improve us. We want to offer you our REFLECTION QUESTIONS so you and those you love (friends, family or just you and your mate) can spend a little time connecting on a deeper level to ring in a brighter New Year. These questions are good ones to ponder ANYTIME in the month of January.

Look Ahead

We are also very excited about a new tool we are releasing in January - Your 3:20 Life.  Two years ago, I (Pam) began praying Ephesians 3:20 over my life, over Bill and our family-- and whomever I am with at 3:20 pm! I set my phone alarm to sound at 3:20 every afternoon. I then stop what I am doing to ask that God would do “superabundantly beyond what I can ask, think, dream or feel” for the people I am with.  
Sidebar: Ephesians 3:20 (The Amplified Version) Now to Him who is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly more than all that we dare ask or think [infinitely beyond our greatest prayers, hopes, or dreams], according to His power that is at work within us . . .

Sidebar: Ephesians 3:20 (NIV)Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us . . .

Ephesians 3:20To introduce you to Your 3:20 Life, the Launching Your 3:20 Year worksheet (for couples) (for women) is our gift to help you choose your Word of the Year, verse of the Year and theme for the year. Later in January, we will release the book, Your 3:20 Life, that contains a weekly plan to keep you focused on your word for the year and the goals that will make it a reality in your daily life. Your 3:20 Life will also bless and build your marriage, family or close relationships. The skills in Your 3:20 Life have helped us live productively for decades and we are thrilled to be sharing them with you.


Looking for our Teammates

We would also love to team with you to bring Love-Wise Living training to your community-- and to your home and family. Could you do us a favor? Please email to us (, subject line: Love for my church) the name of your pastor, church name and address so we can bless your church leadership with some free resources to build the marriages and families in your church and community.

Also, after you have enjoyed your New Year's Date of reflecting back on 2017, and choosing your Word of the Year for 2018, please post a photo of you and your spouse or your family with your Word of the Year. We will host a drawing for our proven focus plan, Your 3:20 Life, on January 18-- so go to the Bill and Pam Farrel facebook page and look for the photo of Bill and I and our Words of the year. Post your picture in the comments or on our timeline to register for the drawing.

Psalm 43:3We have some exciting things in store for you and your family in 2018, and we don't want you to miss any of them, so could you WHITELIST OUR EMAIL? (so they won't end up in your spam or junk folder.)We have been praying this favorite verse from Pam's Discovering Hope in the Psalms book over you and all those you love:

O send out Your light and Your truth, let them lead me; Let them bring me to Your holy hill  and to Your dwelling places. Then I will go to the altar of God,To God my exceeding joy... (Psalm 43:3-4)

PS: If you have been dreaming of going to the HOLY LAND, Israel, we have been asked to speak on a tour in May 2018. Here are the details. Please message us before Jan 14 if interested:

And if you are looking for great small groups studies, please consider Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti DVD set for couples, 10 Best Decisions a Man Can Make, or Discovering Hope in the Psalms: A Creative Bible Study Experience. We offer discounts for orders of multiple copies. Praying for God to encourage and equip you and those you love in 2018.  

May God strengthen and support you and draw you near to Him in 2018s

Pam and Bill

Bill and Pam Farrel, email: • (805) 242-6360