The 10 Best Decisions A Couple Can Make

Bringing out the best in your relationship

Bill and Pam Farrel, bestselling authors of Men Are Like Waffles—Women Are Like Spaghetti, lead husbands and wives through the ten most influential decisions a couple can make to shape a lasting and loving marriage.

Exploring romance, communication, sex, conflict resolution, family, and personalities, the Farrels walk couples through the ten decisions that will:

  • turn me and me into "we"
  • strengthen the foundation of their family
  • redeem past bad choices and give hope for a solid future
  • bring balance to roller coaster emotions
  • create a life together of trust, grace, and understanding

    Filled with practical advice, biblical insights, and the Farrels' trademark warmth and wit, this manual is a terrific gift for newlyweds and just as valuable to longtime marriage partners.

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What people say about "The 10 Best Decisions A Couple Can Make"


“Strong Help, Timeless Advice, True to Life, August 11, 2011

If you've seen or heard the Farells in person you already know they are warm, witty, wise and engaging as speakers.
This book is written in the same way --- it's very approachable and readable. It is also immediately useful.

This is one of the better books out there if you're looking for a wedding gift, or a gift for a couple who
is serious dating and/or engaged. It is also useful for established couples.

Good reading for current and future married couples!

— Barbara Sheldon, M.S.W.



"A little bit of planning goes a long way...this book by the Farrels helped my husband and I establish the things that were important to us in our home. When you are on the same page as your spouse, it makes life so much smoother. This book will bring up important subjects to talk about around the dinner table. We invest so much time and money into things that don't last (like stuff for the house or job promotions), when we really should spend the time investing on our most important relationship with our spouse. This book will help you do just that. Great wedding gift for new couples although seasoned couples will enjoy it too!"
— Arlene Pellicane, Author of "31 Days to a Younger You, No Surgery, No Diets, No Kidding!"